You know that saying, about how you learn something new everyday, well I reckon everyday, you learn something new about at least one person. Because people change, or you realise that the people you knew, weren't really the same people at all. Or it just might be that your becoming closer friends. But you see, sometimes the things you learn aren't necessarily good things. Or they aren't necessarily bad. Sometimes you just don't know what to think.
Sometimes the people you respected do things that you wouldn't expect from them. These things might only be minor things, or they might fall like a bombshell, but afterwards, they really shouldn't expect you to think the same of them. You see change in them, and therefore your view of them changes. Sure, in some people's cases it's minor, you get over it, get used to it; but in others, things can't be forgiven, especially when other friends feelings are involved. Friendships are a close thing, and if you mess with one friend, be ready for the other to come flying your way with a burning stick yelling "Witch! Witch!".
But these things you learn can also make you closer to people. You get pushed closer together and find things that you didn't know were there before. People may go running, but you still know you're both there for each other.
Everyday, you learn something new about yourself too. Whether that your new favourite colour is blue, opposed to the purple you loved yesterday, or that you are more scared of losing people than you thought. These things you learn only make you a stronger person; they make you more you, and that's the only person you should want to be.
So yes, people change, you realise who your real friends are, who the real people are, and really, who you yourself are. But that's only for today. Tomorrow's a whole different world.
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